10 Wedding Mistakes Nearly All Couples Make

Wedding Planning Mistakes

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but since you have never planned a wedding before, chances are, you are going to make a few big mistakes. As a wedding planner, I don't want that to happen to you! I want your wedding to be successful and I don't want you to fall prey to any major wedding planning mistakes. In order to help you out, I have compiled a list of the top 10 wedding planning mistakes that nearly all couples encounter. Be sure to scroll on down to avoid these big wedding planning mistakes.

1. Making Plans Without Setting A Budget

I can't tell you how many couples I have seen book venues, caterers and photographers that are way over their budget without realizing it. This happens because they didn't first set a budget, and it made the rest of their planning processes very stressful and overwhelming.

In order to prevent this, you need to sit down talk about money and set your wedding budget BEFORE you book any vendors. Believe it or not, there are more cost associated with a wedding than you may think and your budget is going to go much quicker than you anticipate. Setting this up from the beginning will ensure your wedding doesn't get out of a hand and stays within your budget.

2. Selecting The Wrong Start Time

Yes, there is a wrong time to hold your ceremony and there are a few things you want to consider BEFORE getting your ceremony start time set in stone.

You first want to consider what time the sunsets. The best photos will occur right before sunset and, if possible, you want the ceremony to end about an hour to an hour and half before the sun sets. Now, I know this isn't always possible, but it something to keep in mind as you determine the ideal timing for your ceremony.

The second thing you want to keep in mind is the your reception start time, as you don't want there to be a big gap between the two. Ideally, you want cocktail hour to being right after your ceremony, and even if guests are traveling between your ceremony and reception space, you don't want to have too much 'extra' time here. Guests will get antsy and won't know what do during that downtime.

Last but not least, you want to consider the length of your wedding. Believe it or not, longer is not always better. If you want guests to be dancing into the morning hours, you are going to want to start your ceremony later in the day. This way guests won't get restless and feel like they are ready to head out before the party really gets started.

3. Signing Contracts That Lack Detail

Contracts that you sign for your wedding should be very detailed and should spell out EXACTLY what is included. For example, a photographer's contract should tell you who will be taking photos on your wedding day, how many photographers will be on-site, the number of hours they will present at your wedding, the cost of extra hours, how long it will take to receive photos, an estimated number of photos you will receive, and how the final photos will be presented to you. Signing a contract that lacks this detail opens up room for frustration and a stronger potential for added costs down the road.

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4. Hiring Friends Without Setting Expectations

Hiring friends for your wedding can be a great way to save on costs, but it can also be a big source of frustration and disappointment. In order to be successful, you need to sit down with your friend and set very clear and detailed expectations from the very beginning.

Click here to learn the five steps you need to take if you are considering hiring friends for your wedding.

5. Trying To Please Everyone

As much as you want everyone to be happy, it is not possible to please everyone. If you try to accomplish this, you are going to be giving up things that are important to you and are going to start to feel like you are constantly disappointing people. My recommendation? You need to first and foremost do what makes you and your fiancé happy. It is your wedding and it needs to reflect you. If it makes you happy and you can communicate that to your family and friends, the majority of the time they will understand and be content with your decisions.

6. Trying To Do EVERYTHING

When you try and take on too many projects and try to do everything, a few things happen. Number one: You will get very stressed and overwhelmed by the process. Planning a wedding without taking on too many projects is already a big undertaking, and adding tons and tons of projects to your plate is not going to help. The second thing that happens, is that you aren't going to be doing anything really, really well. By focusing on too many projects and trying to do too many things, you are going to end up doing them all half way. I suggest focusing in on one of two big projects and doing them really, really well. It is going to be more impactful at your wedding and is going to be much less stressful to complete.

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